The reality is that we don’t always have a lot of control over things that happen our lives, and this is true for both positive and negative events. A wedding, a severe illness that requires hospitalization, the death of a loved one, or a new baby are all emotional events. You may not believe it, but you can control your emotions. Some people who have problems managing their emotions turn to food, alcohol, tobacco and drugs.
When you increase your strategies for coping with the unexpected in life, you will increase your self-esteem. Learn to respect yourself! We can give you tools, but if you don’t know where to start, talk to your doctor or see a psychologist.